While there are still the guys that want to do nothing to prepare for their wedding other than showing up, most men today want to be involved in planning aspects of their wedding. Much of the planning still falls on the bride and it will always be that way but what responsibilities does the groom have? Read on and find out.

1. Select the Wedding Attire for the Groomsmen

This means you’ll have to know what the colors are going to be so talk it over with your fiancé. Once you know you can go to the tux shop and pick something out. It may be a good idea to narrow it down to three options and then run it by your bride-to-be before placing the order.

2. Arrange Accommodations for Out of Town Guests

Once you’ve figured out roughly how many people from out of town may be coming you’ll want to book a block of rooms at a nearby hotel. Arranging hotel rooms can turn into a nightmare if it’s put off. Don’t drop the ball now or you’ll end up paying later.

3. Arrange Transportation to the Wedding

This may seem like a no-brainer but if you have people coming from out of town that don’t have access to a vehicle it can become a logistical nightmare. You’ll want to plan transportation for the bride, her father, the bridal party, the groomsman, the best man and yourself.

4. Arrange Transportation to the Reception

It’s okay to get separate cabs on the way to the wedding but now you’re a married couple so try and get a nice limousine just for you and your new wife to go over to the reception. And don’t forget about the wedding party, they will need transportation as well.

5. Purchase Gifts for the Groomsmen

You’ll want to give your groomsmen something as a token of your appreciation as well as a way for them to remember your big day. Most of the time you get the same thing for everyone and a little something extra for the best man. Getting the same gifts for the groomsmen avoids hurt feelings. Popular choices range from personalized cuff links, knives, flasks, and wallets.

6. Plan Rehearsal Dinner

Planning the rehearsal dinner can be quite a daunting task. If you feel uncomfortable doing by yourself get your best man to help you out. You’ll need to secure a location, select a menu, and find out the number of attendees. You’ll also want to find out if anyone has any special dietary needs.

7. Prepare a Toast for the Rehearsal Dinner

The toast doesn’t have to be anything grand, but you’ll want to be gracious towards your guests and thank them for being a part of your wedding. This is the time when it doesn’t hurt to butter up your future in-laws by telling them how great of a job they did raising their daughter, etc…

8. Obtain Marriage License

This mundane task can be forgotten amidst all of the other planning. Most states require you to go the county auditor’s office and apply. It’s a pretty easy thing to do and not as cool as planning a bachelor party which is why it can be forgotten pretty easily.

9. Get a Gift for Your New Bride

You’ll look like the best new husband out there if you pick up your wife something special that you can give to her. The best time to do this is on your ride home after the reception. If you can’t afford something fancy just make sure it’s from the heart whatever it is.

10. Ask Mom!

If all else fails, follow the sage old advice: Ask your mother! She knows all about the ins and outs of wedding and this future MIL will be able to set you on the right path!