If we had a dollar for every time a bride-to-be or groom-to-be yelled out “let’s elope” in the midst of a heated wedding planning session, we would be rich.  Although few couples actually go through with it, eloping can be done with style and class.

The average wedding in the United States costs nearly $30,000 and more and more couples have to foot the bill themselves.   Budgets and extensive planning are just some of the reasons that the rate of elopements is one the rise. Below are some of the most helpful tips to elope with class and dignity.

• Invite your friends and families

This does not mean you will invite everyone on the original guest list, but does include some of your closest friends and family members.  Parent will be thrilled to be included and the invite may avoid offense.  It is also important to invite close grandparents, siblings and each of the partner’s best friends.

Avoid inviting large groups and keep it small.  The group could go out to a nice dinner after the intimate ceremony and the cost will be kept down tremendously in comparison with the cost of a large reception.

• Hire a photographer

Since you will be saving on just about everything else wedding related, hiring a photographer to be with you at the court house or city hall is a classy touch.  When wedding announcements are sent out, your family and friends will appreciate their professional photograph.

Also, splurging a little for a photographer will provide memories that will last a lifetime.  Couples who elope and do not have pictures taken at the ceremony regret not capturing the special day throughout the years.

• Have a reception party

Elopement can be just the two of you but for a little class and style throw in a reception party after the ceremony.  Friends and family will love being a part of the day even if it was the exchanging of vows.  Themed parties or classy and catered cocktail soirees can be had following the elopement.

Some couples who have eloped opted for a sit-down dinner with close family and friends then on to dancing and cocktails later in the evening. Others have chosen to allow a family member to host a barbecue or dinner part y in the couple’s honor.

• Plan ahead

Even though you are eloping, planning and organization is required to pull off a classy event.  Marriage licenses require time and most applications will not be processed in one or two days.  Due to the time required, eloping to Las Vegas has become quite popular.

• Make mention of your anniversary in the announcement

Not inviting your friends, family members and acquaintances can leave feelings hurt, but by mentioning their presence at your one year wedding anniversary just might calm the emotions.  Some couples have found that by including a note requesting the guest attend their wedding anniversary party adds a special touch of class to the elopement.

Some couples include a best man and maid of honor to the eloping ceremony, while others include only their parents.  Grandparents, siblings, and friends can get upset and feel left out.  Make a big deal out of the anniversary and everyone will love you.

• Dress the part

Even if you are eloping and have decided not to wear the traditional gown and tuxedo, dressing up for the occasion adds a nice touch.  The photos will look a lot better if you dress the part.  Avoid wearing jeans and a t-shirt on this memorable occasion.  Splurge for a nice cocktail dress or pants suit and dress coat.